i wish i would have leash trained my cats when they were smaller. She is a dog and treated with love but as a dog. It’s dogs sometimes, no matter how we expect them to be these perfect little love-fur balls. rachel muchachaenlaventana rachel This sounds, at the very least, like a case of bad timing. Moderate jealousy will go away after a while when your pup gets used to a new person. Maybe they live in New York or LA I’ve heard people are really crazy about their dogs in those places. but they have done this on numerous occasions when I have not been there and this is why the dog destroys our apartment. but this is interesting to know if/when I get an adorable cat-dog in the future. He had a spray bottle he would occasionally *shake* at the cat, and I was like, um, maybe actually use it? Bittergaymark Fabelle Dear Wendy: I’m jealous of my boyfriend because my cats like him better, muchachaenlaventana The comments about your dog are enough for me to be like MOA, honestly, but read Wendy’s first sentence over again. Complaining about my pet would not make me want to stick around for the transition phase ð, Question for you LW is how long to you give this guy to grow up? That was part of why I felt so jealous. Some of them don’t receive enough exercise or attention everyday, and therefore have behavioral issues, I get that. Yes, dogs get jealous. I was just thinking about how pets were never an issue when I was dating 26+ years ago. So maybe that’s where your boyfriend is coming from. ‘Picture the scene,’ says Ben. If you want a family and children, I think that the way someone treats an innocent creature can be very telling and indicative of the way in which that person would treat others as well…. November 26, 2013, 9:49 am. jake and i can talk on the phone, we talked the whole car ride home, ect… and my cats get radio silence when im away- and ive even tried to make jake facetime the cats with me. I have seen people walk dogs on strollers and I thought it was so weird but then I asked someone why he was doing it and it was because his dog was elderly and couldn’t walk well and he still wanted it to get fresh air, and I thought it was so sweet. i hope people that think that way never get a pet. When you finally stop treating men like exciting fixer upper projects, it’s breathtaking. Since your new boyfriend is at home … it seems that your cat is jealous. November 26, 2013, 2:27 pm. Morgan my old job had on-site dog kennel/doggie daycare/dog run which was awesome. Anyways yes it infuriates me and he just chalks it up to “separation anxiety” but I am like dude there is a reason your dog has separation anxiety. GatorGirl oh yes, havent we had that before? ?”, Fabelle Hannah You’re 31 â not “old,” but definitely on the other side of putting up with this kind of crap. November 26, 2013, 12:36 pm. You love your dog. Even if it were poorly behaved, there’s a way to talk about it that doesn’t make him sound like a jealous child. sadly this seems to be a really large portion of pet-owning population. you guys this has me worried because my dog is so timid and won’t love my boyfriend. Ben says: ‘We know that cats will scratch and claw your furniture but if this is something your dog adopts in situations where your attention and affection are not solely focused on them, then this can become a problem. rachel It’s interesting because while ex-boyfriends have maybe not ~loved~ her as much as I do, they see how important she is to me and have accepted us as a two-for-one deal. November 26, 2013, 12:51 pm. Start by Having Your Jealous Dog Stay While You Pet the Other. I've had my dog for almost 2 years now, and she was a year old when I rescued her from the shelter. Husband can cook his own tv dinner. November 26, 2013, 9:48 am, Lindsay November 26, 2013, 12:27 pm. I will sometimes allow my dog scraps but never from the table, only food that is okay for her, and put into her dish after I eat. November 26, 2013, 3:06 pm. and also i mean if you get involved with someone with a pet, wouldn’t you kind of assume they wanted to do certain things. iwannatalktosampson Like, my bf & I let the cats in our bedroom, cuddle with them, etc. November 26, 2013, 11:52 am. pets are HUGE responsibility and do take a lot of the spontaneity out of day-to-day life but it was a sacrifice i was more than willing to make (which i honestly don’t think people consider AT ALL-like all of the ads on craigslist giving up their dogs bc “they don’t have the time” or “did’t realize they would be so much work”) . She is spoiled, but she does have a lot of structure. November 26, 2013, 9:50 am. Matt and Rebecca play with their funny clone to see if Blackjack and Peanut will get Jealous! That’s a HUGE red flag. He doesn’t like the dog, obviously, and therefore the relationship is probably not gonna work out. Anyways not to get anyone’s ire up and I am resolved to say something next time, it is just really awkward. She was sweet when she was younger, but now she hates men. my cat zoe has the same “issues”, and so its always a surprise and a treat and like i won life when she comes and sits with me. November 26, 2013, 2:23 pm. ah, it makes me so mad! painted_lady November 26, 2013, 10:08 am. I’m sorry, I didn’t get a degree from an Ivy League university in a specialized field so I could walk your dog. November 26, 2013, 1:42 pm. muchachaenlaventana IMO if you let a dog all over furniture and beds it can lead to boundary issues but again you are correct its all a preference or how people choose to raise/train their dogs-no value judgement intended not trying to start doggy wars. November 26, 2013, 1:55 pm. CatsMeow which i mean i honestly, don’t even know how to approach the comment. Dr. Jann Blackstone gives advice to a divorced mom about her jealous boyfriend and communication with her co-parent. Blow my mind. bagge72 I can think of three things that would make me jealous of a person’s dog. i remember that being decided. sobriquet I feel like I got a lot of that out of my system after a string of “fixer uppers”, and I’m ready to find someone who has his shit together. November 26, 2013, 2:22 pm. I don’t really get your example. You’d think that a sane person would never expect a Coordinator in most fields to also be your dog’s babysitter, but people do ALL THE TIME. You’ve lit some candles, cooked an exquisite steak dinner and got the latest Oscar-winning movie all ready to go on the TV. Fabelle Jealousy is a common trait for our canine companions and may occur with any age, breed, or gender of dog. that would have been so epic! November 26, 2013, 2:56 pm, lets_be_honest In the video, 39-year-old Corey tries to teach 64-year-old Kris a lesson when she doesn't pitch in to raise their new puppy, Bridgette. ‘If your dog can’t let anyone else get near you without barging into their way, this is a sure sign that your attention isn’t being divided equally enough.’. that may actually be my gift to others though. i don’t really care if this makes me sound like a cooky obsessed dog lady, its true. it makes me feel like i won the lottery because she typically HATES snuggling/cuddling/showing affection. katie I thought she loved me…How long should I wait for this to occur? And my other cat loves him, but she loves me too, so it’s okay. Best Answer. but, you also can’t not do those things. The great thing is that, unlike with the ex-husband, you may not have to get rid of Dylan to correct the problem. She might not be treating him well. But even negative reactions from their owners, like picking up and moving the dog or scolding, are viewed as a reward for their antics, as any attention can be better … I chuckled at that! You need to be on the same page. *gasp* – not a joking matter. Dogs have personalities like humans — and this dog was extremely high strung and uptight. It’s a turn on to see a girls thong through her pants, because then I get to map out the rest of her bum, and get a good picture of it in my head. at work!). Is your relationship with your pet turning your partner into a jealous boyfriend? That’s why I say she is like my child and yes, I love her very much. The biggest fear many new parents have is that the family dog will become jealous of your new baby. PS — I’m nearly twenty eight.”. Pets on furniture is definitely a preference, and if that’s what the owners want, that is totally fine! That’s animal abuse. All rights reserved. Strollers are pretty extreme though. Because the dog is a living creature and needs to do crazy things like eat and go to the bathroom. jlyfsh November 26, 2013, 9:13 am. The pet will be around every day for years — it’s a big part of daily life. Sociopaths normally hate animals before they kill people, just saying. November 26, 2013, 1:05 pm. Kris Jenner is jealous of her boyfriend Corey Gamble's new lady -- their adorable puppy Bridgette -- in the latest 'KUWTK' preview. But if I was jealous of a dog, it would mean that I felt the dog was getting something from someone I love that I am not getting. “They need individual attention, lots of cuddling, and activities to keep them busy and to keep them from being bored. November 26, 2013, 3:48 pm. those people probably also yell at the pet when they’re left for too long and go to the bathroom in the house. And YES!! Cute lamb demands petting while dog gets jealous in the background dog jealousy of new puppy dog jealous of boyfriend dog jealous of husband dog jealous of girlfriend signs of a jealous dog jealous dog of baby dog jealous of cat dog jealous of child. Moral: I should never date this girl. iwannatalktosampson SO many things. Who doesn’t like dogs? it was the best 5 minutes ive had in months. I’m not sure he realizes the level of responsibility and care that a pet needs. And as dumb and shallow as men can be — we somehow never get letters from any of them saying… “Gee, I love my wonderful girlfriend. November 26, 2013, 9:45 am. My point is that if you’re looking for a guy who’s more settled and stable, I suggest dating guys a little bit older than 27. I totally hear you on the cat hate vs. dog hate. I really WANT to call him out on it but it would get uncomfortable. November 26, 2013, 1:47 pm. Woman found not guilty of murdering girl, 7, in front of family, ‘It tends to stop once you give them attention in a positive but measured way, such as redirecting them to a toy or other activity when they start doing it.’. But pure, unprovoked evil is a human trait. November 26, 2013, 10:01 am. Jealousy toward a spouse is probably individual and multifactorial, but here are some of the possible reasons. Yeah maybe he does just hate her dog, and maybe she is one of those owners who never trained her dog to not jump all over people, and nip at at them. ha. Yes, oh my god one time someone just set a bowl of half eaten ice cream on the floor for my dog and I was like WHAT ARE YOU DOING NO. November 26, 2013, 2:14 pm. ‘Whether it’s biting chunks out of the sofa, clawing at the carpets or simply jumping on surfaces they know they’re not allowed on, wilfully disobedient or destructive behaviour in dogs demonstrates that they’re feeling neglected. who even thinks that is a good idea?? This lady who comes into Kohls all the time brings a dog in a stroller. also I think there is something to what CSP is saying, like if you treat your animal better than your spouse or significant other it could probably be an issue but imo giving wet food from a can and mixing it with dry food is actually easier than microwaving something. Many, many women (or perhaps it’s just many, many DWLWs) need to stop viewing men as exciting fix-up projects… NEWSFLASH: expecting a guy to magically mature overnight by the sheer awesome power of your special love is about as dumb as a guy expecting his Miss Semi-Average to shed thirty pounds while suddenly springing forth impossibly perky DDs. until i am married or engaged she will be probably my #1 priority in life because um her life depends on me and i chose to take on that responsibility. I couldn’t stand him or the way the boyfriend-at-the-time treated him. He is a sweet, funny, giving guy who really cares about me, and I don’t want to give up on our relationship too quickly, but I am frustrated that we are having issues and arguments this early on. November 26, 2013, 10:15 am. November 26, 2013, 3:44 pm. 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